A Queens Girl: Breaking Cycles & Choosing Restoration

She looks good. She stays booked. She shows up. She handles business. But behind the polish, she’s tired—because nobody ever taught her how to feel safe, how to set boundaries, or how to heal without performing.A Queens Girl: Breaking Cycles & Choosing Restoration is the conversation you didn’t know you needed—told through the lived experience of Jasmine, a Queens, New York native who learned early how to carry herself, push through, and keep it together… even when the inside wasn’t. This isn’t advice from the outside looking in. It’s a real journey—from survival mode to self-awareness, from silent suffering to truth, and from performance to healing.A Queens Girl: Breaking Cycles & Choosing Restoration tells the truth about power, control, silent suffering, and the kind of “strength” that’s really just survival. Through Jasmine’s story—from Queens, New York to womanhood, marriage, and spiritual return—you’ll see how childhood patterns shape adult choices, why abuse isn’t always loud, and what it takes to stop repeating cycles that feel normal until you finally name them.Rooted in Christian belief and written with real-life honesty, this book doesn’t just share a testimony—it guides you. Each chapter includes key highlights to help you reflect, recognize patterns, and apply what you’re learning to your own healing journey.Inside, you’ll learn how to:Recognize emotional, psychological, and controlling patterns that often get minimizedStop confusing achievement with healing (and busyness with peace)Identify the survival beliefs shaping your self-worth and relationshipsReturn to God as the source of identity, healing, and a new definition of successBegin whole-person healing—spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and relationallyThis book is for the woman who looks like she “turned out fine,” but still feels empty when the room gets quiet—especially if you know about God, but haven’t fully connected your faith to your healing.You don’t have to stay where you are, and you don’t have to heal alone. Start the shift from surviving to overcoming—one chapter at a time. Read more